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Mauro David – the Lesson of Sex: masturbation. We receive a bit’ of time, requests for advice sessuologiche of boys and girls, alarmed by the lesson of sex n° 21 published on www.genitori.it.

The site is “the official organ” of the Association MOIGE the Italian Movement of Parents; this organization defines itself as politically independent and non-denominational. In order to reassure all those who have written to us, we publish the text with some ironic comments (can do is laugh about it..)

The lesson in question is trimmed by Prof. ssa Leda Galli Fiorillo, a biologist and lecturer and specialist in bioethics. The illustrious scientist, clearly the stove of arguing on the reproductive tract of the snails and on the sexual reproduction of the shrimp, broadens its radius of action disquisendo on the effects of existential masturbation teen.

The lady does not tells us if the cow maremma has an orgasm more intense than the frisian, no… stainé! The lady there explains that research into the human “solitary pleasure” is a betrayal of sexual excitement, which, of course, should be downloaded together with a partner. Who does not have a companion of games, not theme: sound pollution at night cure all ills (the similarity with the safety valve of the pressure cooker is spontaneous). The result of so much hubris scientific is that some kids (even parents) have written to health.cytan.com to get reassurance.

I have just passed the fifty and I clearly remember when as a teenager I frequented the places of catholic worship: -“do You touch? You commit impure acts?” she asked morbidly, the priest in the dim light of the confessional. I certainly touching.. but I didn’t take much to understand that, in confessing the truthà, the manifestation of repentance and he resolved every problem (at the bottom I was in the kingdom of hypocrisy).

I have the vague suspicion that the moralism of the catholic, bigot and colpevolizzante the years of my adolescence, has changed its appearance: the saving silverman masturbator not sarà più blinded by the tears of the Gesù … no, today betraysà its nature of human that pursues the love and the maturità of life. Well.. not bad. Bold and elegant… the blackmail.

Read the lesson, n° 21-and forgive the glosses that I have inserted here and là. masturbation Prof. ssa Leda Galli Fiorillo “Therefore, you hear people saying about the teenagers, that masturbation is a good thing to practice, as a means of knowledge of sé, and of their own reactions, and therefore c’è even those who encourages it as an opportunity; for growth.”

Who says that? Have made of the girotondi and I was not there? Ah.. I understand, the lady alludes to those attitudes not polluted by the hypocritical intentions of control and mortification of human nature. Attitudes that, taking note of the ineluttabilità of the practice masturbatory, liquidating the question with an adjective: it is normal.

“Ragioniamo.” 

… sarà better.

“sexual arousal is one particular situation which prepares the genital organs in both male and female at the completion of the sexual act, which by its nature is realized between two persons of different sex.”

I know that the lady is homophobic, or has the wrong lesson, here, speaks clearly of the playback.

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“But the person is not; only the genital organs. Therefore, the sexual excitement predisposes the whole person, body and psyche, to go towards the other, to open oneself to the other, to join it to another in a momentum of giving, enjoying it legitimately, at the same time, the pleasure that derives from it.”

And the infant who has an erection during the bath? The one that pulls you in “pippin” and looks at you up and smiling? What is she doing? And’ già sick? Finirà as a clochard sex alone on a bench smeared by sperm dying?

“Not così with the masturbation. Not the case it is also called “solitary pleasure”: it is, in fact, is aimed only to provoke their sexual pleasure, in solitude, betray, then, the same sense of sexual excitement. And not only the pleasure here is the end, but even the other, to go for, does not exist, at least not in the reality of the moment.” 

fortunately, the lady has not seen the dog of my friend masturbating on my calf. The plush animated is doubly guilty: first, for having attempted the solitary pleasure, I do not have a certain part, then è went against nature playing with me, to the handsome and to the little creature.

“The masturbation, therefore, is characterized as a real withdrawal sé same, as a closure of his own self, that would be called to expand, to be open in self-giving love (it is a testimony to the deep sense of malaise from the inner leaves, of the là of the physical pleasure that it produces). Ultimately, the masturbation, as a way of life, può only inhibit the capacity to love and thus hinder the process of personal growth.”

Maybe the lady in the watch “march of The penguins” took only the romantic side of the documentary. The biologist neglects the hypothalamus, that portion of the brain the size of a walnut that keeps our instincts più atavistic, among which the conservation of the species, then…. the sexual drive. The colony of penguins, led by mother nature, it moves towards the goal of reproductive perché the thrust from the hypothalamus. In adolescence explodes the sexual desire becauseé è exactly the età of greater reproductive efficiency.

our girls tredicenni that we see parading on the street, buxom and provocative, representing the triumph of the sexual booster. As we define them? Of sluts or, more simply, of the hypothalamic nuclei? Adolescents resort to masturbation, becauseé subjected to with chemical of nature, the effects that exercise their despotism in a moment of construction of the personality; in which the relational skills are not always mature. All of usò è the reason of concern? Obstacle to personal growth?

“It is needless then to add that you should not engage in any “school” of sexual pleasure is to learn the reactions of your body: the sexual pleasure is, in fact, by its nature, so strong and addictive, that if it does immediately experience when is the time…” 

of Course… you’ll be mine in the reeds and nature guiderà. And’ this is the title of the film written by a biologist? As I say.. from the dolls or the toy soldiers embrace engaging in two seconds flat. But not sarà that this kind of approach to sex is one of the causes of many abortions adolescent?

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“of Course, teenagers, to learn to exercise the domain of their own impulses, as you said, they need time.” 

Behold… there we are. The lady comes to the point, what is più in the heart: control of impulses, or rather, the sacrifice. Once called “foil” and it was dedicated to some saint in exchange for a few favoruccio of little account.

“in the Meantime, should be subdued condition about their fears. This applies, of course, especially for the guys.” 

And how do they reassure? We knock each time at the door of their room asking if they touch? In short … we need him the boxes. And admitted that one of these may confess the guilt before administering the lesson of Prof. ssa Leda Galli Fiorillo, allow it to finish or irrompiamo as the Digos in the room? Will probably the lady attended very little males, otherwise he would know that these rarely admit, circumstances and noises, and only between peers, their propensity onanistica.

“Many of them actually believe that, if you do not ejaculate every now and then, might chissà which damage. Nothing più wrong. In nature, everything is expected. The sperm are produced continuously all the days, from pubertà to old age: it is obvious that they could not forò be used every day!

Therefore, in man, is set up a system of recycling of the sperm used, which are the vast majority, through the absorption of their wealth of protein and DNA, however precious, which is reused to manufacture always new sperm.

it is true that sometimes the tension that accumulates locally in the male può also be high, but also for this there is a natural solution: there is a phenomenon called “pollution of the night” that just serves to unload the excess voltage during the sleep of the boy, so in an unconscious way, but still liberating. So, no fear!” 

può to hear this thing! The assertion cries out for revenge! If someone doesn’t get it I try to explain it in terms of più of the flesh. The sperm shot is recycled, ok. we agree. If the urge to orgasm exceeds the levels of human endurance, don’t worry about it sinceé the male has a safety valve.

The joke is in the series: don’t make the wanker but wait the pullulata night… not è always punctual, but sooner or later there comes. In this way, you can’t enjoy alone and you will have a sex life exciting. I might add that maybe Gesù è too happy. The reflection on the masturbation and slips away with this solution.

“It becomes all the più adults più we learn how to govern their own impulses!”

Here again is the sacrifice intended as a tool of existential fulfilment. Shame that here we are not talking about the government of the aggressività (at this time I would know with whom to vent my). The hypothalamus governs our instincts. It is therefore obvious that the level of maturità of a human being is directly proportional to the capability; negotiation between desire and reality. The difference that exists between the lion out of the forest and the human animal lies in the different way of acting and feeling. He, the lion, kills the male courting his female, the human does not, however, becauseé is affected by the social context and its rules. And, among the latter, not c’è only the penal code with all its deterrent power, c’è instead a common code of coexistence of emotions and shared values and, above all, of respect for the other.

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the epilogue of The biologist would be acceptable, if it was related to the aggressive drives that pollute the serenityà of the majority of human beings. Instead, it is to be condemned if we are talking about masturbation, that what is “natural” practiced in età of adolescence, sometimes in a frenzied manner, and also in età adult occasional.

So… becauseé to break the brown to our kids? There are scientific texts, except those that draw inspiration from the books of prayer in the parish, that auspichino an intervention therapeutic, if not in the presence of a pathology, and consolidated in età adult.

“to Explain to the adolescents with the delicacy of the sense of what they feel, make them understand that to feel is not the same thing agree, that the important thing forò not è never to fall, but to go all out in order not to fall and still wanting always to raise, are so many acts of love towards them, which they transmit to them the desire to become stronger, to be won, to become truly adult, free and responsible and to learn to love.”

in Short… if you run a finger tip does not need to feel guilty. The important thing is to learn to resist the desire of the next. Resist, resist, resist invocò Borrelli talking about the attacks on the judiciary. A life with hands tied, here’s what advocates for the scenziata for our boys. And the girls? The biologist forget the girls kidnapped from what was once called hillbilly – “fury of the uterus”, the symptom that led to nymphomania.

it is enough to read the numerous statistics published from the weekly più to fashion, to realize how the masturbation is widespread among the fairer sex. If the distinguished biologist want to learn more, you may make a detour into a sex shop and inquire in person about the progress of the sales of vibrators. Also, get to know the lady, that the above-mentioned kind of comfort willà also be purchased at the pharmacy. What può make the girl affected by the syndrome of the solitary pleasure? I dunno… maybe use the absorbent paper, maybe three times in the dì. On topic, am looking forward to the next lesson.

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