What è the difficulty; the greater to recognize the depression on the part of all? Perché is perceived as a sort of stigma on mother-to-be and his whole family?
In our civilizationà superspecializzata technologically we are witnessing a curious paradox: the increase of attention for the medical aspects is accompanied by a denial of the emotional implications related to the pregnancy.
In particular, you tend to completely deny the presence of psychological disorders and this phenomenon concerns not only family members, and, of course, the new mothers, but the same health professionals that deal with pregnancy and the puerperium. This phenomenon is linked to a large number of prejudices very common and widespread, both conscious and unconscious, the latter più difficult to fight and eradicate, becauseé operate at sub-threshold, are not recognised, we refuse to consider them.
Midwives, pediatricians, and all those who should provide the first indications and support to new mothers, often create with their rejection of the emotional resonances, the stigma and the rejection of the difficultyà pregnancy, puerperium, lactation. Thereò amplifies the sense of guilt and shame difficult to accept.
doctors believe that certain incidents of the route (complications of childbirth, the difficultiesà of attachment to the breast) are foreseeable and bearable by the mothers, and give place to self-pity is dangerous. All of usò risk of blame still più women who have già a lot of difficultyà to accept these issues. The climate is too emphatic, too enthusiastic, and positive Family Counsellors può be an obstacle to confess and share these difficultyà.
Remember a woman, Ada, which is addressed to the gynecologist of the Life of the Woman confused, the day before he had attended the baby massage of the Counseling center and was the più active and capable, giving an image of the great adequacy, and competence. Back home it was angosciatissima, and I felt bleffato and that it was not the good mother who had staged in the group.
Thereò sì that these people come to ask for help very late, which makes the operation of the più difficult.
actuallyà the statistics show that 50% of new mothers feel in the later hours after the birth, a state of tiredness and sadness, which is called baby blues and that perhaps a number of women much higher (some statistics speak of 75%). While the 10-15% in the days or months svilupperà a true depressive disorder, and only 1/1000 sfocerà in the so-called puerperal psychosis, a rare event as it is dangerous for the couple mother-child. Thanks also to the dissemination through the mass media, some cases are particularly dramatic, they became part of the collective unconscious, and cast a dark light on the “myth of the maternal”.
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January 29, 2017